Being accused of a sex crime in California is terrifying. Even without a conviction, you could lose your job, face public humiliation, and deal with lifelong damage to your reputation. Whether the accusation is false or exaggerated, your response in the first 24–48 hours can shape your future. This guide walks you through exactly what to do — and what not to do — if you’re accused.
Step 1: Do Not Talk to Law Enforcement Alone
If police want to “ask you a few questions,” you are likely already a suspect. Do not speak to them without a lawyer present. Innocent people often think they can clear things up — and accidentally say things that get twisted or misinterpreted. Instead, politely decline and say, “I want a lawyer.”
Step 2: Preserve Every Piece of Evidence
Preserve text messages, DMs, emails, voicemails, and anything that could prove your side. If you were with someone else during the alleged incident, get in touch with that person immediately. Your attorney will need this to build your defense.
Step 3: Avoid All Contact With the Accuser
It might feel tempting to try to “clear the air” with the person accusing you — but this is a critical mistake. Never contact your accuser. Not only could it violate a restraining order, but it can also be used against you in court, even if your intentions were good.
Step 4: Hire a Criminal Defense Lawyer Immediately
You need an attorney who specializes in sex crimes and false accusations. Your lawyer will act as a barrier between you and law enforcement, guide you through investigations, and start building your defense before charges are even filed.
What Happens Next?
Here’s a general timeline once you’re accused of a sex offense:
- Investigation: Police gather evidence, possibly interview you (don’t agree without a lawyer).
- Arrest: If they believe they have enough, you may be arrested and charged.
- Arraignment: You’ll appear in court to hear charges and enter a plea.
- Pretrial: Your attorney files motions, negotiates, or prepares for trial.
- Trial: If no plea is reached, your case goes to court.
Each stage is critical, and early mistakes can make a huge impact later. Preparation is your best weapon.
How a Good Lawyer Will Defend You
Your defense may include one or more of the following:
- Disproving physical evidence or lack thereof
- Showing motive for a false claim (jealousy, revenge, custody battle)
- Challenging timeline and location details
- Cross-examining the accuser’s credibility
- Using phone records, video, or GPS to prove your innocence
Sex crime cases often come down to “he said, she said” — but a smart, aggressive defense can dismantle even a shaky accusation.
Your Rights Matter
You are innocent until proven guilty — but in the court of public opinion, it often feels like the reverse. That’s why hiring the right defense lawyer matters. They’ll protect your rights, manage communication, and work to stop charges from ever being filed.
Falsely accused of a sex crime? Contact us now for immediate legal protection and a confidential consultation.
